Talking about gay marriage and marriage in general

        I am really tired about people talking about how happy they are about the gay marriage thing.Is great for people who are prone to get married or wanted to get married all their lives and so but not for everyone. I mean is awesome and i wish them to be happy and stuff.

I think they have made that new so important in the media that you have forgotten other more important things in life and you've just being focussed on the gay marriage thing. I'm really glad for those people who are interested in getting married but partially as i don't really trust in a paper who could attach two people to live ever after until divorce comes or marriage to get both parts get richer with their partner goods, that's what happens in the marriage club party.

    I think is beautiful that two individuals of the same sex who are madly in love could get married yet you shouldn't think things when your head in on fire,you know best decissions are made when there is a long time you know each other and personally and you would like to take the next step. There has been so many marriaged that have started from people who know each other almost one year and they think about moving and stuff,then they decide to get married and suddenly they realize this don't work at all? Marriage is not a game thing,it seems like for anyone marriage has became more like a fashion statement than something as seriuos as the union or two lives in commitment and compromise,like come on,is people really serious about making a statement of attaching a strong bond of two people to get married ?? 

        

Marriage gives you a status,marriage give you compromise,marriage gives you too much obligations if you're prone to fulfill the requirements and personally i say is good for the ones who are ready to make that commitment. I would decline. Marriage wasn't made for anyone and some of us are happy being single or maybe have gotten too many people who only caused troubles in life for having another type of quarrels,we don't want no complications by now in our lives so we are the kind of people who don't really would like to have that kind of commitment in our lives, also not everyone like kids unless those kids could refelct a little of what we would like to have or maybe some of us don't realy like kids or everyone in here like kids? I don't think so. I've some friends who like to visit their nephews from time to time as long as they don't troublesome their lives. Also the idea that i have of a family differs too much of the idea some people got about that. 

Some people make really nice families and their kids are awesome,educated,brilliant,but not in all cases.Sometimes you overidealize your kids traits and qualities. I don't know,people who got families..I'm a single attractive girl with no kids and honestly i havent' found anyone particullarly interesting or appealing in my neighbourhood or in any other place. And when i am prone to like someone this person don't respect me as an adult and treat me like a kid or in the worst case as an old person because i am indigo (not that  that everyone believe in spiritual traits) far appart people just use you,lies to you and stuff. People is everything about it.Very few people behaves as responsible adults as i am,some people even treats you as if you were her white adopted baby and stuff that id on't want to discuss about..

    And is ok,everyone have different perspectives yet without offending,i'm too straight to the point and some people take things too personal.i just find some people are prone to verbal attacks and they get things too personal and i don't want to have a debate with people like that,if you're not being able to respect my point of veiws and you're gonna be offenssive or a bully better get out of the way,very far from being civilized adults.  Congratulations to everyone then :)